One kid to two kids and life can change so much with some days can go so smoothly while there is some difficulties in the mix, but hey life is good! My life with two kids has it days where it can be so smooth while other days can be difficult which include a strong drink for me...hehehe. Changes when becoming first time parents happen, but boy does life adjust even more by adding another especially when my oldest have been the only child and only grandchild on both sides for 4 years. Now from one to two kids I'm still playing by the books and going with caution as much as I can, but having an oldest one who is 4 that needs to keep busy and stay busy has been hard especially not some what understanding why we can't do the things we did before until baby brother is little older or mommy had to heal. But when we do go out the carseat cover yet again has come in handy, and at almost 6 months old he has had his share of outings which include doctor appointments, a few outings with big brother, take big brother to school, end of the year activites(thankfully he had some shots at that time), plus getting out in general. While from one to two kids it's for sure has been hard but we are adjusting, and still getting using to the family of four or when I'm by myself going out with two kids on my own. You know with almost 6 months in I'm still getting use to going with two kids and when I do go out I say a prayer that it goes smooth and no meltdown from either of us...and it' is successful on some outings. Going from one to kids had me freaking out as i thought everything was going to stop but here I'm doing it and doing my best!! I'm now doing it by myself until my husband comes home and we do it as a team. Plus I thought I was nervous with just one but now I think I'm even more nervous especially now that brother is back in school I think about the sickness, germs, and how I'm going to protect my household and my youngest. But instead of me freaking out I'm just going go with the flow, take it day by take, continue to do what I'm doing when I'm by myself, and when my husband is home with me. Having to start all over with baby while my oldest is 4 hasn't been easy and for sure a major adjustment as sleeping in was happen already and diapers/pull ups were starting to leave our house, as well as outings were becoming easier for the three of us, but hey he's only little once we are taking it all end as he's our last baby. Life with two kids has change all of us for the better, it's for sure got a lot more interesting having two boys, and going from a family of three to four but I'm must say all and in all it's for sure worth it!! My anxiety is always going to be there but I have learn just take it all end at that moment because I won't get it back!
Love,
A mom whose life got a lot more interesting with being a mom a boymom at that
Love this saying from pinterest because that's exactly how I feel, but truly blessed!!
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