Friday, November 7, 2014

Team mate down and trying to stay to calm

I can't keep calm, it's a mommy & wife thing was tested this week and guess what I almost lost my mind.

With that being said I was taking care of my son and my sick husband who thankfully is starting to feel a bit better. See I'm so use to doing everything and anything that I still want to do everything and anything. You know I'm your old tradition Hispanic wife who was raised to served and care for my husband, my child, than myself, which I do that still even after having a baby but now if baby is crying his needs comes first which my husband and I both take care of him and make him happy, my husband, than me!

So like I said this week my husband was feeling under the weather, and not having that extra hands to help me with our son was overwhelming. I maintain myself and turn on super mom/wife mode and took care of both my boys, myself, clean, cook and feed all of us, oh yeah and blog a bit...yay me/go me! I not once complain as I know this was my job/duties to do, but my husband apologize to me for not helping which I really appreciated that he did that. Also on top of that my son notice something was wrong, because daddy didn't spend time with him and the faces he made to his daddy was to funny...if only he knew and understand that daddy was sick and one day he will understand. It's crazy how life can change and roles can change because just two months ago my husband was doing all the cleaning, caring for our son and I because I had a c - section, and cooking, and anything and everything else on top of that which before we had a baby he would help no matter what.  

See the reason why I was tested because when your team mate is down you pulled double the work. Yes my husband work but he comes home helps out with whatever and than the weekends he's extra help because he's here.

After everything we work well as a team and we made a great team before the baby came, and make even a better team now that our family is complete for now. Teamwork is important and this week was my job to get my team mate better and back at it again.

Do you have a team mate? Do you do team work? Have you ever felt overwhelmed? Please share!!

Lauren

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